Think being honest might hurt your chances? Girl, please. Your date will be pissed off if they’ve wasted a good outfit on someone who just wants to screw around.īe clear about what you’re looking for, and everyone wins. Many queer people are empathetic and caring partners when it comes to exploration, but don’t agree to a ‘date’ if all you’re looking for is sexual experimentation. Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Be Honest From the Get-Go That You’re Curious These tips are for men who want to try sex with other men, in a safe and respectful manner. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Tips for men who want to try sex with other men – in a safe and respectful way